So, as we head into summer something that we will NOT be stopping around our house is read-aloud-books! If there is anything I feel suuuuuper passionately about its reading aloud to my children. I’ve got a MAJOR soapbox issue when it comes to reading and I believe the reason so so many kids today struggle with it and downright don’t enjoy reading is because they were not read TO enough! ( which is a TRAGEDY!):
Personally, I think reading to our children, or rather just having books read to our children* is the absolute best way for our kids to gain a desire to read more ( they realize what they’re “missing” and want to practice reading more) and better. After all, if they’re just familiar with books on their own reading level ( aka often very short, not very developed plot wise, usually not particularly captivating ) then they’re never going to really have a desire to work harder to get to all of the AMAZING books that are out there!!!
But first let’s get to that asterisk* : Reading out loud is actually not just the ‘act of reading words on a page in an out loud voice.’ It is SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT. You also have to think about what the listener is hearing, you have to master inflection ( scary passages in a scared voice, happy passages with an upbeat rhythm etc, ) and speed ( not too fast, not too slow). And as it turns out not a lot of people know this, or have taken the time to practice. Because, yes, it takes practice. I know for a FACT that I have gotten better at reading aloud to children since having my own children. Practice does indeed make perfect, or it at least shows you areas that you need to work on. If your kid keeps getting up and walking away then MAAAAYBE just maaaaybe its not the book that is boring ( although, to be fair, that’s possible too) but maybe its your monotone reading voice. But, don’t worry….if dramatic reading is not something you’re up for then please PLEASE do not think that read-aloud books are not for you and your kids! In fact, don’t even feel like this is some kind of great fault! Not everyone is cut out for dramatic reading, but have no fear, thanks to modern technology read-aloud books can be in your future too!
Start by, thinking about the time you spend in the car (Everyone with one of those awful built in DVD players in their car, PUT THEM AWAY! You are WASTING perfectly good car time! *unless you’re on vacation for hours and hours in which case, lets all watch Kung Fu Panda 1-3 please and thank you) Instead, hit up your neighborhood library and check out a million and one books on CD! I promise, that if you start by doing it in the car ( where your child is already strapped in) then your child will also be ‘trained’ in being a good book listener ( because yes it does take practice to be a listener too! Ransom started out not loving it, but only doing it so he could get screen time…now we’re at the point where he doesn’t even get the screen time any more but just asks for more chapters! AAMAAAAAZZZZING!) . Pretty soon you and your kids will all be delving into a wonderful world of books too!!!
|Not a chapter book exactly, but we do a lot of reading for all ages around here.|
Ok! So those who are ready to start practicing reading aloud, the good news is that most of the books that are great for being “starter” read aloud books ( fast paced, fun, short chapters) are also pretty easy to read….so you and your kids can grow together! And also those of you who just want to hit up the audio books-that’s great too! Or hey a great mix of both is also wonderful! I know this summer I plan on doing both!! …now I’ll just say there are a BUNCH of great reading resources that have good reading lists for kids divided by age group particularly on Pinterest. But for fun, and also because this way I will have my list in one easy to reach place, here is the tentative list of the books we’ll be reading this summer:
|We even read on vacation!! Studies say that if a Dad reads to a kid they are much more likely to read themselves!|
The Indian in the Cupboard ( we’re currently reading this and Ransom HATES it when I stop reading…we’re reading about 3 chapters a day and he’s pleading for more).